Appreciating Friends during Divorce

I've been wondering about friends and divorce for awhile now, and still feel unresolved about my feelings or my reality. I had a friend who went through divorce, and even though life sucked in so many regards during that time for her, she pulled her friends in closer to support her during the worst time in her life. We loved being there for her, regardless of how many times she mentioned her divorce or her ex's name or her craving a relationship with someone new. Now, during my own divorce, I wonder about drawing my friends closer, or would it be better to give them a reprieve from the stresses of my daily life. Some friends have already made that choice for me, and they are dearly missed. Others are rallying around me and my children, and for that I'm eternally grateful. In the words of the Buddha, we create much of our own suffering. As I reflect on that, I recommit to appreciate my friends and draw them near me during the worst time in my life, to buoy me up during this flood of turmoil, for who would throw back a life preserver when they have been washed overboard? Family and friends, I love and appreciate you all in my life, during the times when I'm an inspiration and strength to you, and during times like right now, when you all are an inspiration and strength to me.